Let $G$ be a graph with $\binom{n}{2}$ vertices, each labeled with a different unordered couple $\{a,b\}$ such that $a,b \in [n] = \{1,2,\ldots,n\}, a \not= b$.
For any vertex with label $\{a,b\}$ and $m = \lfloor (n-1)/2 \rfloor$ different elements $a_1, \ldots, a_m \in [n]$, $a_1, \ldots, a_m \not= a,b$, and $m$ different elements $b_1, \ldots, b_m \in [n]$, $b_1, \ldots, b_m \not= a,b$, not required to be different from $a_1, \ldots, a_m$, we know that there exists at least one edge $\{\{a,a_i\},\{b,b_i\}\}, 1 \le i \le m$ in $G$.
Can we compute or estimate the minimum number of edges that $G$ must have?
Modeling the problem with an Integer Linear Program I have computed the following minimum values for $n=3,4,5,6,7$ respectively: $3,15,32,83,138$.
My actual final goal is to find the minimum number of colors for a vertex coloring of the graph, but maybe this question is easier and we could use the minimum number of edges to bound the number of colors (see here).
If $a,a_1, \ldots, a_m$ and $b,b_1, \ldots, b_m$ are sets of a union-closed family and an edge $\{\{a,a_i\},\{b,b_i\}\}$ means $a \cup a_i \not= b \cup b_i$, then the required property is necessary for a counterexample of the union-closed sets conjecture, otherwise we would have $a \setminus b \subseteq b_1 \cap \cdots \cap b_m \cap a = \emptyset$ and $b \setminus a \subseteq a_1 \cap \cdots \cap a_m \cap b = \emptyset$ and then $a = b$, a contradiction. If we could prove that a coloring for $G$ can be done only with at least $n+1$ colors, then we would prove the union-closed sets conjecture: the number of sets of the family must be greater or equal than the number of colors. The argument as it is may not be sufficient, because e.g. for $n=7$ the inequality $138 \le \binom{n}{2}^2(k-1)/2k$ gives just $k \ge 2$ but there are some possible improvements, like e.g. we can allow $b_i = b$ and $a_i = a$.