Let $f:\mathbb{R}^2\to \mathbb{R}$ be $L$-Lipschitz. Let $f_\varepsilon:=f*\eta_\varepsilon$ be its smooth $\varepsilon$-mollification, where
- $\eta_\varepsilon(x)=\frac{1}{C\varepsilon^2}\eta(|x|/\varepsilon)$ and
- $\eta:\mathbb{R}\to\mathbb{R}$ is a standard smooth cut-off function taking values in $[0,1]$, integrating to $C$ and such that $\eta=1$ on $(-1,1)$, $\eta=0$ outside $(2,2)$, and $|\eta'|\leq 2$.
It is standard that $f_\varepsilon$ is also $L$-Lipschitz and that, as $\varepsilon\to 0$, $f_\varepsilon \to f$ pointwise and $Df_\varepsilon \to Df$ $\mathcal{L}^2$-a.e.
Clearly, $f$ restricted to $\mathbb{R}\times \{0\}$ is still Lipschitz, and hence (by Rademacher's theorem) for $\mathcal{H}^1$-a.e. $X\in P$ the derivative $\frac{\partial f}{\partial x}$ exists at $X$. I am trying to figure out if it is true that, for $f_\varepsilon$ defined as above (i.e. the mollification of $f$ on the whole $\mathbb{R}^2$), there exists a sequence $\varepsilon_j\searrow 0$ such that the following holds: $$ \frac{\partial f_{\varepsilon_j}}{\partial x}(X)\to \frac{\partial f}{\partial x}(X)\quad\quad\text{for $\mathcal{H}^{1}$-a.e. $X\in \mathbb{R}\times \{0\}$.} \label{1}\tag{$\star$} $$ Of course, if we parametrise the horizontal lines by their vertical component, i.e. $\mathbb{R}\times \{t\}$ for $t\in \mathbb{R}$, then Fubini implies that \eqref{1} holds for $\mathcal{L}^1$-a.e. $\mathbb{R}\times \{t\}$.
I am looking for either a proof that \eqref{1} holds in fact for all lines (with the sequence $(\varepsilon_j)$, and potentially also the mollifier $\eta$, depending on the line), or for an explicit counterexample.
Remark: I am aware of the fact that, for each given $t$, it is possibile (using Whitney's approximation theorem) to find a sequence of smooth functions (possibly different from the mollifications) such that the convergence holds on $\mathbb{R}\times\{t\}$, but here I am only interested in the sequence of the mollifications.