I want to add a switch to an existing lighting circuit to toggle the function of the circuit.
Currently, I have a 'standard' 3-way lighting circuit with two switches at opposite ends of a space, controlling a pair of lights in the space -- one light is near each switch. I seek to be able to switch between this mode of operation (i.e. where both lights are controlled, together, by either switch), and the mode of operation where each light is independently controlled by only the switch nearest it.
To be clear, I do not want to change this permanently to two separate simple light-with-single-pole-switch circuits. Rather, I want to add a switch to the circuit to make that mode be one of two selectable modes of operation (with the other mode being just as it is now.
Extra credit if I can make it such that, when operating in the mode wherein the lights are decoupled, the switches for each are always in the proper orientation (i.e. toggle up is on, down is off).
The extra switch can be 2-way, 3-way, or even 4-way, and can be placed anywhere. How can I wire this? (Technically, I'll use a 'Shelly' internet-controlled switch to toggle between modes of operation -- they come in SPST, SPDT, DPST, and DPDT configurations, as far as I know, but I don't think that is germane to the question -- I think it can be done with an ordinary switch just-the-same.)