Suppose we have two random variables $X$ and $Y$ with unknown distributions. I am looking for an unbiased estimator for the absolute expected difference: $$ | E \{ X - Y \} | . $$ For instance, suppose we have unbiased independent observations $x_1, \ldots, x_n$ and $y_1, \ldots, y_m$ ($n,m \geq 1$), how can we use these data to construct an unbiased estimator for the above quantity?
Preferably, I would like to find an unbiased estimator for the general case, including perhaps only mild assumptions such as the existence of the first (few) moment(s). However, I am happy with any progress including:
- solutions for specific distributions with unknown parameters (e.g., under the assumption that $X$ and $Y$ are both distributed according to a normal distribution, but the means and variances are unknown),
- efficient biased estimators, for instance that minimize the mean squared error (again, suggestions for the general case and for specific distributions are welcome), and
- any thoughts on good estimators for special cases.
Thanks for any input!