I am going through Spivak's Calculus right now and I am trying the exercises in Chapter 5. Spivak gives the following definition of the limit $L$ of a function as $x$ approaches $a$:
$$\forall \epsilon>0, \exists\delta>0:0<\left\lvert x-a \right\rvert<\delta \implies \left\lvert f(x)-L \right\rvert<\epsilon.$$
To prove that a limit doesn't exist, acoording to Spivak, one must use the following negation:
$$\forall L, \exists\epsilon>0:\forall \delta>0, \exists x: 0<\left\lvert x-a \right\rvert<\delta \ \text{and} \left\lvert f(x)-L \right\rvert\geqslant\epsilon.$$
Now my question is, since $\delta$ can depend on $\epsilon$ when proving that a limit exists, why haven't I seen anyone pick $\epsilon$ based on $\delta$ when doing the opposite? What I have noticed in those cases is that the author would pick an abitrary number $\beta$ in place of $\delta$, find a suitable $\epsilon$ in terms of that number and then pick $0<\left\lvert x-a \right\rvert < \min(\beta, \delta)$ to obtain the desired contradiction for any $\delta>0$