I'm designing an AC charger for a EV side that uses the Type 2 standard. I dont have the full 62916 spec document but I'm using this as my reference point
So far my design looks like the following

I'm using a relay powered by a transformer-less power supply (TPS) that's powered by the current carrying bus for compact design (the circuit could potentially be fit into a type 2 charging nozzle) and generating less heat
I have a question regarding the switching relay. Should I use an ordinary or latching relay? Any other comments or suggestions?
EDIT: This is the image provided by my source, not sure if I'm implementing it correctly (fair use purposes):
Previously I was using this adapter to charge my vehicle, but I suspect it doesn't implement full comms protocol so it works only on some ESVE:

